Reminders...

When life gets really challenging, it seems like all we wish for is a guide- a book on life and what to do in every situation- unfortunately, we don't have that yet but these are some reminders that help to make my journey easier:

​1) Don’t assume-

especially about people and situations you know nothing about

2) Don’t “check”-

 if those people shitted on you, they’ll always realize their loss. Don’t give any energy. They don’t deserve parts of your life or attention they they’re willingly not a part of.

3) What you’re meant to know will always be revealed-

don’t take it upon yourself to see if a person or situation has “changed”

4) Don’t look back-

what’s meant for you won’t leave or it’ll circle back around

5) If a puzzle piece isn’t fitting, don’t try to make it work-

 people, situations, energy, life

6) Stop with the self guilt-

you are allowed to be human, fuck up, say/do things you aren’t proud of. It’s life and it’s yours. Everything happens for a reason.

7) Trust the process and focus-

what’s meant for you is yours. What you want, work for it. Simple.

8) Preserve your energy-

what’s the point? Of hurting yourself? For things and situations that don’t belong?

​9) Your “worst” is heal-able.-

don’t let temporary ruin your life.